Dating Coach: The #1 Sign He’ll Actually Stay with You | Jillian Turecki

Weeks of texting someone feels like intimacy. It's actually the safest way to never get rejected. In this clip, Jillian Turecki and Jay Shetty talk about the three mistakes people keep making in dating, and why the fourth one, the month-long text thread with a stranger, might be the most expensive of all. Jillian breaks down why we chase the people who don't want us and lose interest in the ones who do, what "chemistry" is actually measuring, and why the person you pick matters more than almost any other decision you'll make. Jay shares the friend who came back from a perfect date and didn't want a second one. Learn about the difference between a spark and a value, why your 16-year-old self is still running your dating life, and the one piece of advice from a therapist that Jillian calls the worst she's ever received. JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe