Trauma Doctor: Waiting For Time To Heal You Is A Mistake | Dr. Gabor Maté

Gabor Maté believes trauma isn't what happened to you. It's the wound it left behind and unlike the event itself, that wound can still be healed. In this clip, Gabor Maté and Jay Shetty talk about why vulnerability literally means "the capacity to be wounded," and why the mind builds itself to keep you from ever feeling that pain again. Gabor breaks down the needs every child is wired to expect, and what happens when even loving parents can't meet them. He explains why two kids raised by the same addict can end up on completely different paths, and why "time heals all wounds" isn't actually true. Learn why loneliness has nothing to do with how many people are around you, and why Gabor says the mind you carry into every relationship was built the day no one knew how to hold you. JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Cha